Showing posts with label potty training. Show all posts
Showing posts with label potty training. Show all posts

Friday, May 11, 2012

Cloth Diapers: Info for the Interested


Thirsties brand velour with a Thirsties brand cover

I can't really point you at any specific site that will give you all the info I wanted when I was researching cloth diapers but here are some things to think about. There is SO much to know about cloth diapering but there is also a great quantity of resources and you can just google it when you feel confused! All in all, I'm REALLY happy that we decided to cloth diaper. David was actually the one who ended up pushing me to do it after I got him interested. We took a cheap educational class on cloth diapers from a local retailer and it was awesome! There are at least 8 different ways to cloth diaper and lots of new vocabulary terms. Also, this blog post helped a lot in making my decision http://www.younghouselove.com/2010/08/the-much-requested-cloth-diaper-post/.

Values: regarding the environment I thought a lot about landfill waste but what cinched it for me was finding out that disposable diapers say in the instructions to flush solid waste down the toilet. Putting used disposables in the landfill is one of the only ways that people bypass sewage treatment so babies' poops go untreated and seep into the ground--icky. With cloth diapers, whether you rinse them or just wash them in the washer, that water gets treated and recycled at the water treatment facility. Same goes if you use a cloth diaper service. Their wash water would get treated also.

Whether or not cloth or disposables use less energy is negligible so I opted to not use that as a factor in deciding what to do.

Health and Safety: The chemicals they use in disp are kind of terrifying and I'm surprised that the government allows people to put them on their children. There is some talk of disp chemicals causing fertilty problems in males but I don't have any details. Additionally, we still use 1 disp a night on Eva since she is less bothered by being wet when she's in a disp. A few times, I have noticed that the gel spheres in the disp have come out of the lining and are directly on her skin and I have to wipe them off. NOT a fan of this.

Time: Cloth requires about an extra load of laundry every 1-3 days depending on how many diapers you have. Figure 12 diapers/day at first then 8 later on. So you'd need 24 diapers doing laundry every other day. My high efficiency machine takes 2 hours to wash a load due to the extra settings. A regular machine would probably just be 40 minutes or whatever. 

Size of your baby: the diapers I had were ridiculously huge on Eva until she was 5 weeks old or about 10 pounds. In general, you have to get used to the bigger look of cloth since disp are so trim these days.

Emotional destruction after birth/tolerance for experimentation: I was destroyed after the birth both physically and emotionally. Think of a crazy topless unshowered person who shuffles around mumbling and crying for 3 weeks. Yeah--the side of birth no one ever talks about. I tried to cloth diaper Eva when she was 2 weeks old and we both wound up in tears. We used only disposables until she was 5 weeks old. I recommend it. After 5 weeks we had figured out breastfeeding and I was wearing clothes again. I also had the emotional bandwidth to learn a new skill.

Budget: We were spending $10 every 4 days on diapers when she was little. She used a shocking amount of diapers. Cloth diapers can be very cheap if you use the prefold old fashioned kind--like $10 for 12 of them and $5-10 for the water proof covers they need. I only buy All in One or All in Two diapers. They can cost up to $25 each so your initial outlay of moolah is a lot more than disp. 

Here is an All in One http://www.peachygreendiapers.com/turquoise-solo-luxe-aio-diaper/. You just snap the thing on and off of her and wash the whole thing. The other kind I use have snap-in absorbent inserts and waterproof shells. Here are the shells, scroll down to see the inserts http://www.myblossombottom.com/products/GroVia-Shells.html. We use the shell several times in a row and just snap in a fresh liner. These are David's favorite.

Laundry Options: In general, the new style cloth diapers take forever to dry in a drier so if you have the ability to have a clothesline that's key and saves some energy too. High efficiency machines are a pain since they use so little water, you can end up having ammonia issues which can get serious if you're not paying attention. That's why my machine takes so long as i have to add extra cycles and rinses to get the ammonia out. Kind of a downfall of high efficiency! People with trad machines rarely have issues. You might also need  a special kind of detergent. Country Save detergent with Calgon if you have hard water and Rockin' Green detergent are favorites in my circles but you could probably use just about anything including Tide if that's how you roll. Actually, I think I read that Tide works the very best out of everything. I'm allergic to Tide so that wasn't an option for us.


Also notable-exclusively breastfed babies don't need their diapers to be rinsed or pretreated before you throw them in the wash. I can't believe how easily it washes out of her diapers. Once they start eating foods, you have to dump the poo into the toilet or spray the diapers off before washing. That's covered in the first link above.

Potty Training and Diaper Rash: Diaper rash amongst cloth diapered babies is very rare. In fact, diaper rash was kind of unheard of before disposables hit the scene. Because babies can feel that they are wet, they prefer to have their cloth diaper changed more often which prevents the rash. Being able to feel that they are wet also contributes to earlier potty training since it's a gross sensation that they want to learn how to avoid! I think I read that cloth diapered babies potty train 3-6 months sooner than disposable babies--WIN!

Longevity: You can save your cloth diapers and use them on multiple babies. I've known people whose diapers have lasted for 3 children so they only have to make the investment once. To fully embrace this, buy gender neutral colors and prints. I failed at this and have lots of girly diapers but couldn't resist!

Looks: Cloth diapers are adorable!

The bottom line: read up on it, try to find a local retailer or eco friendly baby store and touch and feel the diaper options they have. Make the best decision for you and your family. Maybe buy 1 or 2 and try them out. If you hate them, you can always sell them on craigslist :)

Do you cloth diaper? What resources did you use to make your choice? What sites do you use now if you have a question about cloth diapering?

Friday, October 30, 2009

Potty Training with Elimination Communication

I am pleased to have Laurie Boucke as a guest blogger today!  Laurie has a wealth of experience in natural potty training.  Enjoy!
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Infant potty training is a gentle and ancient means of toilet learning. It has several names because several of us mothers “discovered” it on our own and have written about it for different audiences. Other names include elimination communication, potty whispering, natural infant hygiene and assisted infant toilet training.


Babies are aware of the elimination function from birth and emit little signals before they have to go. But we don’t watch and listen. Communicating with your infant about this enhances bonding and reduces diaper use. The ideal time to start is between birth and 6 months, but you can start anytime up to about 2 years.

Here is how to get started:
1. Observation
Lay your undiapered baby in a comfortable, warm and safe place, then observe her:
a) timing (how long and how frequently she goes after waking or feeding)
b) body language
c) sounds
If you start with a toddler, you can use training pants or let the child go “nakey butt” while you are becoming familiar with these things.

2. Anticipation or Intuition
Anticipate when your infant needs to go, then at that moment, make a watery sound such as "sssss" or use whatever sound/words you prefer. Babies under 6 months start to associate this sound with elimination within a few days. It may take some weeks or months for toddlers.

3. Position & Toilet Place
When you think your infant needs to go, hold her gently and securely over a basin or other receptacle (or seat your toddler on a potty or the toilet) while giving an audible signal. Your child will soon associate the sound, position and place with elimination. Use whatever location and receptacle are most comfy and convenient.

4. Baby-Mother Communication

Continue to pay close attention to your child's timing and signals. When you think she needs to go, hold her in position and give your signal. If it is near time to go, infants are able to relax those muscles upon receiving your cues. Toddlers who have been trained to use diapers may take some weeks or months to catch on, so don’t be discouraged.

Fathers and caregivers can help. Infant pottying can be done on a part-time basis, as long as you are fairly consistent. For example, potty your child first thing in the morning and after his first meal; if you have time, potty him in the evening.

The environmental benefits are fabulous since parents gradually reduce the quantity of diapers over the months (most use diapers as a backup in between potty visits). This helps conserve resources such as trees and water, and it cuts down on landfill use.


Laurie Boucke wrote the first book ever on infant potty training in 1979 when she used it with her third child. Her most recent book is Infant Potty Training: A Gentle and Primeval Method Adapted to Modern Living (2008) and she co-produced a DVD entitled Potty Whispering: The Gentle Are of Infant Potty Training (2006)
http://www.white-boucke.com/IPTstuff.html“Infant Potty Training” book and “Potty Whispering” DVD
http://www.TimL.com/ipt Infant Potty Training Webring
http://www.pottywhisperer.com/
copyright 2009 Laurie Boucke, used with permission

Friday, October 23, 2009

Elimination Communication: Diaperless Babies!?

A comment to the green diaper post prompted me to check out diaperless babies.  What could be more green than not using diapers at all?  Check out this website.  There's a whole non-profit associated with how to not diaper your baby. 
http://diaperfreebaby.org/index.php?module=article&view=8&page_num=1


As I read through the site, I was SHOCKED at how similar the technique is to potty training your dog.  I used the exact techniques listed to potty train my dog.  Now, if I take her out and say, "go potty," she will, every time. It's great before road trips, etc.

I think I could be interested in trying this technique, especially if I were a stay at home mom.

Greenbaby series 3 of 5 - Cloth or Disposable Diapers?

If you are aiming to be green, using cloth diapers instead of disposables may seem like a no brainer. I don't believe, however, that the choice is that black and white. With disposables, you have to consider land fill waste, and chemical/gas use in manufacturing, shipping, and the associated packaging. With cloth diapers the main consideration is water use for washing, and some possible chemical use for cleaning. While water use may not seem to outweigh the factors involved with disposables, I have actually read research stating that, depending on where you live, it does. If you live in a place where land fill space is plentiful, but water resources are scarce, it was recommended that one use disposables. And vice versa. Using a cloth diaper service can reduce water/energy use for cleaning because they are able to be more efficient with washing large numbers of diapers at once. The drawback is that, most of the time, they will use some kind of bleach agent to disinfect between multiple customers, whereas at home you can use natural cleaners. Cloth diaper services are also considerably more expensive than washing your own.



There are some other good alternatives on the market today. My favorite is gbaby diapers (stands for green baby diapers) at http://www.gdiapers.com/gdiapers101 . They have reusable cotton covers with plastic free, biodegradable inserts. You can toss, flush, or compost the inserts. You get the best of both worlds - no washing, and no land fill waste. The only problem, for me, is the cost. It costs about $75 a month to diaper your baby in gbaby versus about $35 a month to use disposables. For someone like me, with two in diapers, I just can't swing $150 a month for diapers. So, as you can see, there are many factors to consider when deciding on diapering practices and the same choice isn't going to be best for everyone. We need to look at our own circumstances and make the best choice we can!
 
OrganicAngel's Two Cents:  Reading Laura's post got me thinking so I researched at home diaper services an found this one that services the Northern Colorado area.  I recommend you peruse this site to learn a lot if you are interested in going green for your babies.  This service is eco friendly and provides good info.  They also say that cloth diapered babies potty train more quickly than disposable users! 
http://www.ecobabydiaperservice.com/index.asp